How to Raise Happy Kids!

I think there is no specific criteria to Raise happy kids but if we focus on some points then it will be definitely a interesting task or I would say habit for parents!

Below I listed 10 common points about raising HappyKids! Maybe you already read it but today I explain how I deal with it and what changes I observed between my kids and of course in me

1. Give them quality family time

2. Listen to them carefully

I feel giving them time and spending quality time with them are two different points.

Spending quality time with them means playing with them as like a kid or spend time only with them and listening them carefully giving them a chance to talk a lot and understand their feelings giving answer to their all kind of small questions and if we spend time with them listen them carefully they automatically feel confident and responsible person in the house.

3.Make them independent:

Making them independent means they should do their own day to day work by themselves like eating,bathing,wearing clothes, wearing shoes etc. My four and half year daughter can do all her day to day work by her own. every day she decide which dress she wants to wear she choose it from her cupboard she decide which hairband and shoes suits on her a particular dress she took lots of time for this and many time mess up the cupboard but that’s okay for me because of this she present herself confidently. I feel if we give them a chance to do their own work by themselves they feel more responsible and easily habitual to these Daily things.

4.Don’t criticise them:

हे तुला येत नाही, हे असं करु नकोस , तुला जमनार नाही असे negative sentences नेहमी टाळावे. Else tell them, we can do this way this will give better results.. we will try it… In this way you can earn their trust.

For example lot of kids at higher age means 5 to 6 years or maybe more than this doing Toilet on the bed at night so don’t scold them this will never going to work only tell them very patiently and calmly, go to the washroom before going to the bed tell them you understand them you trust them and see the magic ! if they feel their parents are always with them in their good as well as bad time they always behave confidently!!

5.They copy you - so stay happy make them happy!

I always observe one thing, if I have bad day bad mood my kids also getting bored, showing tantrum and what not….so I feel parents mood, house environment parent relationship with each other is directly impacted on their kids behaviour …so if you won’t happy well mannered kids, then you must be always stay happy so that they can!

6. Express your love through hugs Cuddles and lots of kisses :

Your ‘Jadoo Ki Jhappi’ It’s very important for them so never do ‘Kanjusi’ For that. Always tell them that you love them so much at this age they really need your love and cuddles for their better character!!

Just ask yourself how many times you hug and kiss your child and how many times you scold on them? I hope the hugs and kisses count is way higher

7.Appreciate them for their effort :

Don’t forget to appreciate your kids for their small small good habits like finishing their meals, clean up their toys and many more things like these:.. Our motivation always work for them magically!!

8.Avoid excess screen time:

Excess screen time badly impact on their brain due to which they always irritated easily and almost every time in bad mood so avoid it as much as you can

9. Teach them good habits through bed time stories:

To learn good habit bedtime moral stories work very nicely! try it.

10. Teach them to show gratitude:

Teach them the meaning of and use of words like sorry,Thank you and please this words make kids polite and kind !!!

Thanks for reading !!!

I would love to hear your point of view to make Kids happy!!!